The past few months have not been easy. I thought I had found the one person who would stick by me through anything but I was wrong. He ran. I was conflicted after, trying to make sense of the mess he left behind. At first I blamed him because it was easy, but one day …
Being Cheated On
The classic signs that my ex boyfriend was going to cheat on me were always there. He was distant, emotionally unavailable, never made time for me, and spent a majority of his time with his guy friends. I could list a hundred more signs and it wouldn’t matter. What I remember was the small little …
Dating Yourself
I have no shame in admitting I went to a therapist after my first relationship ended. At the time my ex boyfriend had become a part of my identity, and I was trying to grasp a sense of who I was apart from him. I thought therapy was only this place I went to talk …
Getting Over the Hump and Leaving a Relationship
I believe there is a pivotal moment in every relationship that is doomed where your sig other finally says the one thing that makes everything clearer, and gives you the strength to take those steps to finally leave him/her. For me, it happened after my ex told me he wanted to stop having sex because …